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The Newborn Sleep Playbook: What's Inside

By Baby Sleep editorial team · Updated

The Newborn Sleep Playbook on a tablet with printable charts, the What's Normal booklet and the companion app

The Newborn Sleep Playbook is a 46-page, 13-chapter guide for the first 12 weeks, delivered as a PDF with a companion web app, a printables PDF and seven bonus guides. Here is what each part contains, so you can decide whether it is what you are looking for. It is educational and does not replace advice from your pediatrician.

The approach

Plain language, short sections and a calm tone for tired parents. It is built around a few ideas: newborns are not trying to manipulate you, you cannot spoil a newborn by holding or comforting them, there is no single right schedule and comparing your baby to a friend's baby is a fast road to feeling bad. It does not use "cry it out," and nothing in it promises specific sleep results. It starts with a 10-minute plan for tonight.

The Playbook, chapter by chapter

ChapterWhat it covers
Start hereHow to use the guide, a 10-minute plan for tonight and ground rules
What's normal in weeks 0 to 12Typical sleep, active vs. quiet sleep, noisy sleepers, the startle reflex
Safe sleep firstThe AAP 2022 recommendations, the ABCs and a safe sleep checklist
Wake windows by weekA week-by-week chart of commonly cited ranges and three simple rules
Sleepy cues vs. overtired cuesEarly and late signs and what to do for each
Your soothing toolkitContact, swaddling safely, sound, motion, sucking and a quick soothing chart
Teaching independent sleep, gentlyDrowsy but awake, the pause and the calming ladder
A flexible daily rhythmEat, play, sleep and sample rhythms for weeks 0 to 4, 5 to 8 and 9 to 12
NapsContact naps, catnaps and naps on the move, with safety notes
NightsWorking toward longer stretches, the dream feed and a night waking routine
Troubleshooting common worriesWitching hour, gas, reflux and spit-up, growth spurts, twins and parent shifts
Taking care of youProtecting your sleep, baby blues vs. something more and a weekly self-check
When to call your pediatrician, plus your 7-day starter planWarning signs and one small step a day
The Newborn Sleep Playbook cover beside its Start here chapter page

Sources cited include the AAP 2022 safe sleep recommendations, NICHD Safe to Sleep, HealthyChildren.org, the CDC, the NHS and Postpartum Support International.

The web app

Included with the Playbook is a web app, the Newborn Sleep Toolkit, with seven tools:

The companion web app on a phone: wake timer, tracker, soothing sounds and a safe sleep check

The printables

The Newborn Sleep Printables PDF has the fridge-ready pages: a wake windows chart, a 7-day starter plan, sleepy vs. overtired cues, a calm-down ladder, a safe sleep checklist, a what-to-do-tonight page, a bedtime routine checklist, a daily rhythm planner, a contact list and six bedtime routine cards. See the wake windows chart for a preview of one page.

The Newborn Sleep Printables cover and a Wake Windows by Week page

The seven bonus guides

  1. 101 Newborn Sleep Answers: What's Normal? A quick reference of short answers.
  2. Bedtime & Soothing Cards (24 cards). Cut-out cards.
  3. Partner Night-Shift Planner. Shift models, a weekly planner and a fridge sheet. See newborn nights with a partner.
  4. Safe Sleep Nursery Setup Guide. See the safe sleep checklist.
  5. Fussy Weeks & Growth Spurts Calendar. A week-by-week table and a 12-week tracker.
  6. The Grandparent & Helper Handbook. Rules and routines for other caregivers.
  7. Tired Parent Recovery Planner. Rest and recovery.

What is not included

To be clear about what you get for $37.00:

Who it is for, and who it is not

It suits you if you are expecting or have a baby up to about 12 weeks and want a calm, plain-language reference and a few simple tools. It may not suit you if your baby is already several months old, if you are looking for a sleep training method, or if you want personalized coaching. See a sleep consultant vs. a sleep guide to compare.

Read a few guides first

You can read the guides on this site to get a sense of the style, such as newborn wake windows by week. They are written to be useful on their own.

Frequently asked questions

Who is the Newborn Sleep Playbook for?

Parents of babies from birth to about 12 weeks who want plain-language information about how newborns sleep, safe sleep and gentle ways to make days and nights easier.

Does it promise that my baby will sleep through the night?

No. No guide can promise how your baby will sleep. It shares typical ranges and gentle ideas, and there is no age at which every baby sleeps through the night.

Is it medical advice?

No. It is educational and does not replace advice from your pediatrician. It includes a when-to-call chapter and cites public sources such as the AAP, NICHD Safe to Sleep, CDC and NHS.

Does it use cry-it-out?

No. It does not use cry it out or leaving a newborn to cry alone. Everything in it is responsive and gentle.